Growing up
When you grow up, you’re judged less on your ability to complete tasks, but on your ability to make good decisions. You have to give yourself the physical, mental, and emotional space to make good decisions.
It’s less true when you’re young. When you’re young, you are judged more on your ability to work hard or finish tasks or display a certain skill.
Adults are judged on their judgment.
Also, you realize that no one really looks out for you. You have to look out for yourself …